The Weeping Flower

This blog will explore the truths or shall I say the false realities of the torn female as I like to call it.  This blog will be written with the use of personification and imagery.

The weeping flower, flower = female.  We all know that relationships are tough full of ups and downs, twist and turns.  For a female a relationship can cause much bliss, glory, love, happiness.  But when the relationship is over they find many heartaches, pain, disappointment, hate, sadness.  In that I came up with this personification of the flower, how a flower can be so beautiful at times of joy and happiness yet such an ugly being when in times of distress and sadness. 

A flower can be such a beautiful thing when it is taken care of in the nurtured, loved, fed (cause females love to eat).  If one takes a flower, plant the flower in an environment in which will provide the flower with the necessities (sunlight, water, attention, etc.), to grow and be beautiful, than the flower will. If one plants a flower in an environment in which will hinder the flower from its necessities (no sunlight, no water, no attention, etc.) than the flower will take the part… a wilted ugly flower. In many cases a female finds herself when in a relationship a lot happier, a woman’s natural urge to be wanted and possessive at the same time.  A woman can be one of the most complicated, craziest, simple, mind boggling, being ever.  Women want to be catered to, loved, provided for, in control, the only ONE.  When a female finds herself to be the only one in a males life she feels a bit of completeness.  She finds her days to be happy, blissful; she becomes joy and fun to be around.  {Beautiful Flower} I don’t feel that those are task to hard to accomplish.  But somehow males manage to mess this up.  Because men are some of the most inconsiderate, irresponsible, simple minded beings, we find ourselves ruining these beautiful flowers, killing them or creating ugly ones.  When relationships go south, many times it hits the female harder than the male.  So what happens is the male move on and the female remain stuck on.  The female becomes bitter as Laci puts it in her blog check it out [mi chaotic solstice] when females become bitter they begin to ruin their lives and the lives of those around her.  She wants to see no one happy, unwilling to prosper, unwilling to take that chance with someone else. {Weeping Flower} The thing about a weeping flower is that the flower is still alive, and can have all the beautiful colors and characteristic of a flower in full bloom.  See what happens is the female still has all the characteristics to be the happy person she once was, in a relationship with someone else, but instead she decides told hold on to the past and let it affect her ability to move on, and become a Beautiful Flower again.  What also happens is she tries to date again or finds someone to talk to, but of course she pushes the new guy away, of course it takes time to get over someone and sometimes we move to quick when it comes to that.  But often because of the fear of being hurt or going through the same thing from before, she is unwilling to take the chance on a good guy that’s willing to be part of her life. 

There is one thing about being a wilted flower, which is that if you nurse it back up to the proper health then once again it will be a {Beautiful Flower}

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